Wise Words | Darling Musings

Keep In Mind Dolls and Gents 

It's a habit of mine to contemplate life on a forgoing basis 

I've long known that I am in many ways 

at the mercy of the universe 

however it wasn't until recently that I actually learned to let go 

.

I've accepted that 

I can only steer my ship, I cannot control the waters 

I've spent many of hours on plenty of days 

attempting to control the uncontrollable 

trying to direct that which cannot be directed by the hand or mind 

of any one human being 

I've accepted that I have to trust,

trust that I'm being led on a path of beauty 

and trust that it's my duty to improve only 

upon myself, live my dream, learn along the way, & enjoy the ride

.

Even the darkest moments host an enchanting nature

and the balance of it all 

the beauty and the terror 

create the balance that is my life

!!!!!!

xxoo

Clubhouse Rules # I don't even know anymore....

Clubhouse Rule 

# I don't even know anymore 

I lost track about 10 rules ago

.

WE MUST

Hello & Happy Friday's loves 

I've been away with good reason 

and will soon return bearing gifts

Enjoy your weekend's

!!!!!!!!

xoxo

Clubhouse Memos | Free Positive Thoughts!

Happy Monday Darlings

Let us begin the week with positivity 

!!!!!!!!!!!!

Below are free positive thoughts

that I retrieved here in cyber city from this address 

kindovermatter.com

Please adopt one or all and utilize them

.

xoxo

Red Table Talk On The Telly!

Well, Well, Well 

Here we are again

&

What a joy it is to have made it too see yet another day 

and a Friday at that 

!!!!!!!

In honor of Mother's day 

Jada Pinkett - Smith, 

her mother 

Adrienne Banfield Jones, 

and daughter 

Willow Smith

have all gotten together to 

share an intimate and honest discussion 

on love, life, family, fame, & more

while displaying unity, expression, and a mother/daughter bond 

thru good times & bad 

all over a red table in 

'Red Table Talks'

Check out the preview

"I think eventually the red table will represent raw conversation,  about any topic you want."

"My belief is that communication is the best way to create strong relationships.  Just for people to be able to sit down together and have a conversation, that's the power of love. Love is what sometimes holds us and binds us when we're not so happy. If we concentrate on how much we can love one another, we can get through all the other stuff.”

- Jada Pinkett Smith

The power of a table and a few questions is remarkable

Give this a try 

!!!!!!

The full video clip wasn't intended to be released until 

Mother's Day 

however I've gotten a hold of the entire episode 

and placed the link below 

Enjoy 

& 

Happy Mother's Day 

to all the Mommy's 

You are appreciated & loved

!!!!!!!!

Red Table Talk Full  

xoxo

Clubhouse Rules | Memos| & Music

Hello & Happy Thursday Dumplings

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let's see what I've got in my bag of goodies 

for you Darlings today 

hmmm...

Well here's a couple of new rules for you

and by all means please do

.

I've also got a very official and important memo 

that I suggest all Darling clubhouse members & non- members alike

read & remember 

Here it is 

And last but most certainly not least 

I've got a couple of songs

suited for a 

Thursday 

.

:)

I do hope that everyone is enjoying 

their Thursday 

!!!!!!!!

xoxo

Happy Post #100 !!!!!!

Hello, Hello

Happy Tuesday All

It appears that we've made it too the 

100th Post

I wish I was able to celebrate with all of you 

who have been dedicated thus far 

perhaps by the time we reach the 

1,000th post 

I'll be able to give us an actual event 

in fact that is now a goal 

to have an actual celebratory event 

inviting each of my dedicated readers when we reach the 

1000th post

Don't any of you forget because your all my VIP's.

But at this point all I have to offer is my love 

I do hope that is enough

I also hope that each of you 

(as long as your of drinking age) 

will have a glass of champagne on this 

May 1st 2012 

in celebration of 

The House Of Darling 

making it too post # 100

.

"If you have much give of your wealth; if you have little give of your heart." 

- Arabian Proverb

This is certainly from my heart 

 a labor of love 

!!!!

.

xoxo

Clubhouse Rules | Gloria Steinem's List Of Top 10 Fearbusters

Hello Honey Bunches 

&

Happy Monday

!!!!!!!

I hope everyone enjoyed their weekend 

& it is also my hope that everyone 

has the intent to make the most of this week 

!!!!!!!!!

This morning I tumbled into a familiar 

name & face 

journalist, feminist, and political & social activist 

Gloria Steinem

!!!!!!!

Most known as 

"an outspoken champion of women's rights since the late 1960s".

It became evident to me that Miss. Steinem was one of my kind 

when I'd read that upon entering college she chose to study 

Government, which at the time was a non- traditional choice for women.

It's not that I'm interested in government, it's that I am a fan 

of anyone who strays from the beaten path,

which at that time was to become a wife & mother 

and take on whatever life it is that your husband finds interest in.

It was apparent that Gloria had plans, goals, & ideas 

none of which involved becoming another pale tile on the wall of 

'The American Dream" 

One of her most quotable lines of that time was 

"A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" 

and though I do loves me a good man I do understand why she had such definite 

opinions about the matter, being that she was living in a time 

where women's only option, hope, & life 

revolved around the opposite sex

.

Anyway it seems Gloria,

The Glamorous Feminist,

has a list of 

Top 10 Fearbuster's 

and that is the very thing I'd come across this morning.

Naturally I deemed it more then worthy 

and practically necessary 

to be shared here in 

The Clubhouse

Check it out below & take as much from it as you can 

!!!!!!!!!

Gloria Steinem’s List of Top 10 Fearbusters

10. Reverse the golden rule. For women, treat ourselves as well as we treat others.

9. Fear is a sign of growth. If you are afraid, it means you are stretching and doing something you haven’t done before. (This is in regard to endeavors, not people)

8. Anger is an energy cell, it is precious.

7. We (women) need to make sure we are using our own unique talents, and not imitating others’ talents.

6. Measure yourself by the real, not by the ideal.

5. Look for allies everywhere. Do not be bound by conventional hierarchies.

4. What is viewed as a disability – being “feminine” – has enormous advantages within it.

3. Just about everyone can learn to change, even us and even them.

2. Ask for help. Surround yourself with people who make you feel smart, not dumb.

1. Remember that our humanity, our equality, our self-determination is the key to everything.

xoxo

Clubhouse Rule # 9

Clubhouse Rule # 9

Happy Sunday

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

xo